My Story - Aysha Haq (@a_haq)

#bamed

Blog theme 1: Your Journey

Who are you?

I love this question as I interpret this as, how do I define myself, here it goes.

My name is Aysha Haq. In Arabic my first name 'Aysha' means 'She who lives' or 'happily living' and my second name 'Haq' stands for 'truth/human rights'. In my name alone I believe that I embody the essence of this movement, being a happily living woman speaking the truth and fighting for human rights.

A 21st Century Muslim woman i.e someone who strives to uphold all the five pillars of Islam whilst still enjoying shopping at Dolce & Gabanna and listening to Drake.

After completing my Bachelors Degree in Software Engineering I enrolled on a PGCE course to qualify as an IT teacher and currently working towards my Masters. With 7 years experience in teaching.

Where are you now?

I see this question as where I am now professionally and spiritually.

Professionally I have the pleasure of working as the Director of Marketing and Education for @UKEdChat.

Spiritually I am a very positive person and I am trying to embody that in all facets of my life.

Where did you come from?

Personally, I come from a middle class Muslim family, immigrant parents. My father with his unwavering belief in eduction and it's power; always shared stories of how his family growing up didn't have electricity and after working all day, he only had the opportunity to study at night - the only place he thought was peaceful with incredibly lighting was the graveyard.

My mother, the woman I look up to beacon of guidance is the most determined, hardworking and open minded individual I have come across my entire life. With four children, she still made time to gain qualifications when she moved here to the UK.

These are the inspirational people I have in my life to shape the foundations of my being.

How did you overcome any obstacles/barriers?

Each and everyone of us has gone though our own struggles and personal barriers. The biggest one for me was the lack of opportunities to progress and showcase my talents. Under appreciated and unrecognised.

You have to stop blaming the people, the surroundings, the culture and accept this 'You are in charge of your own destiny'. I firmly believe in that. Don't regurgitated your problems, what is the solution?

In my case, the solution was to make a change. Be the change I expected to see.

What advice/messages do you have for others in the same position?

Get out of your head, Be strong, Be brave, Challenge yourself and Change.

As Muhammad Ali said ' It isn't the mountain ahead to climb that wears you out; it's the pebble in your shoe.' 

Author Profile

Aysha Haq

Aysha Haq

A life long educator

1 story

Comments

Pran  Patel Pran Patel @mrpatel 2 months ago
Let's drop those pebbles together :) - thanks for your story Aysha.
1
Hannah Wilson Hannah Wilson @misswilsey 2 months ago
Aysha - great to see you hear and learn a bit more about you. Looking forward to meeting in real time some time soon!
1
Suzie Happy Suzie Happy @suhappyness 2 months ago
I like the 'in charge of your own destiny'. It all starts with ourselves. Thanks for sharing Aysha
1
Amjad Ali Amjad Ali @astsupportaali 2 months ago
Drake sucks!
Ha, great to read about your journey... continue to be the First Of... :)
1
Anoara Mughal Anoara Mughal @ano 2 months ago
Definitely agree with not blaming your surroundings and taking charge.
1
Parm  Plummer Parm Plummer @parmplum 2 months ago
I take inspiration from your courage, Aysha. It's great that you have had the courage to carve your own path.
Hannah Wilson Hannah Wilson @misswilsey 2 months ago
Ps if you edit hashtag to #bameed it will go in collection & we will trend
Martha Da Costa-Sherwood Martha Da Costa-Sherwood @dacosmeconsult 2 months ago
I like this Aysha - both your positivity and advice. Thanks for sharing
Farhaan Patel Farhaan Patel @farhaanp79 2 months ago
Great read- thanks, Aysha. I can certainly 'connect' with: 'inspirational people I have in my life to shape the foundations of my being.' Thank you.
Mal Krishnasamy Mal Krishnasamy @malcpd 2 months ago
You are in charge if your own destiny - the motto of my life! Great blog Aysha!
{{ modalTitle }} {{{ modalData }}} {{ modalTitle }} {{{ modalData }}} Join the conversation
Sign in or sign up to post comments, follow colleagues, recommend stories and build your own professional profile.
Staffrm is the professional network for educators passionate about their work.
Please Sign In {{ modalData }} Sign In